age: just a number?
Hello,
long time no see (well not really)
So here's the deal; a group of people were arguing about whether age in a relationship is something to take note of or not
and as usual I got interested.
I do not think age should be important in relationships (except you are 18 and she's/he's is 65) in that situation you are being babysat and not in a relationship don't be deceived, I mean what do the both of you have in common? probably nothing, so how do you want the relationship to grow?
On the other hand if the age difference is not so much (you know the babysitting kind) why not if not? And do not get me wrong here, I am saying in a situation where you like the person involved and the only thing stopping you from making a move is the fact that she's 2 years older than you (she because guys are usually the victims of this problem).
At the end of the day what matters most should be how you both feel towards each other (if she does not like you...sorry bro ain't nothing you can do) and not whether you are 18 and she 20.
If you like her and you are sure she feels the same and age seems to be the only barrier.. push it aside, break away from the so called social norm where its a taboo for you woman to be older than you, this is simply because there is no recipe for success in relationships... The one you are about to forget because of age might just be the ONE....
Also, the fact that it didn't work for someone else doesn't mean it won't work for you (except if you are 18 and she's 65; then in that situation you need a psychiatrist)
Finally, I do not know it all and I just gave my uncensored opinion on the issue. Comment below letting me know what you think and where you stand on the matter. Is age just a number? or is there more to it.
Falling in love is easy,
staying in love requires work.
- unknown
long time no see (well not really)
So here's the deal; a group of people were arguing about whether age in a relationship is something to take note of or not
and as usual I got interested.
I do not think age should be important in relationships (except you are 18 and she's/he's is 65) in that situation you are being babysat and not in a relationship don't be deceived, I mean what do the both of you have in common? probably nothing, so how do you want the relationship to grow?
On the other hand if the age difference is not so much (you know the babysitting kind) why not if not? And do not get me wrong here, I am saying in a situation where you like the person involved and the only thing stopping you from making a move is the fact that she's 2 years older than you (she because guys are usually the victims of this problem).
At the end of the day what matters most should be how you both feel towards each other (if she does not like you...sorry bro ain't nothing you can do) and not whether you are 18 and she 20.
If you like her and you are sure she feels the same and age seems to be the only barrier.. push it aside, break away from the so called social norm where its a taboo for you woman to be older than you, this is simply because there is no recipe for success in relationships... The one you are about to forget because of age might just be the ONE....
Also, the fact that it didn't work for someone else doesn't mean it won't work for you (except if you are 18 and she's 65; then in that situation you need a psychiatrist)
Finally, I do not know it all and I just gave my uncensored opinion on the issue. Comment below letting me know what you think and where you stand on the matter. Is age just a number? or is there more to it.
Falling in love is easy,
staying in love requires work.
- unknown
I agree with you, it's not a sin to date someone older... Not a sin. Unless it's the (18 and 65) situation. 😂
ReplyDeletelol exactly thanks for reading and commenting
ReplyDeleteyou are right it is not a sin to date someone younger than you are i feel it is just society that created the rule of age.
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